Friday, December 23, 2011

All along the watchtower

self portrait 102


It’s been more than a year and a quarter since I thought I lost everything. And since then, I’ve been everywhere you could imagine. Been undressed by kings, been to the bottom of the seas, been to the kingdom of hearts, been to different bat caves and sometimes, even to the depths of a howling Inferno. I’ve seen things, great and bad. And what I understand is that there is little understanding of happiness in everything. 

Happy are those who sleep with demigods, then those who pretend to be emperors. And then there’s the cabinet maker, those who lick their black mirrors and then those who see visions of future. Chief among these, I’m curious to the savage state of those who are drunk from the cocktails of romance. 

This I pretend to understand, for I thought that happiness lies at the bottom of its crystallized glass. And so like Alice, I drank from the many strange bottles I saw. “Drink me,” the bottles said; printed in full bold colors attached to their necks. Neither turned me giant; capable of picking the tree of triumph. Neither turned me small; enabling me escape through the narrow hole leading to the illusive freedom of reality. 

You see me and people tell many things about me. To some, I am miniscule rabbit; others thought I’m a glaring vulture. Consequently, these tend to equate to my idea of happiness. 

I couldn’t blame them though. 

This holiday season, there seem to be an additional present for every single one I get. Often you will hear people say “I hope you find happiness,” “I hope you’ll get hitched soon,” “I wish for you to find the right guy,” and many other variations of it. Honestly, it’s the same desire I silently wished for a distant time ago. It’s a silent prayer to no one in particular since I never really included it to my prayers to God. 

I’ll tell you what most of you do not know. Strip of all names, all cloaks of grandeur and the high ambitions I speak off, I am, first and foremost – a kid. 

A boy in his early twenties who has specific fixation over leather boots, who enjoys mini RC cars and glows every time an M&M mascot is in sight, is what lies behind philosophical speeches, high political commentaries and drama anthology worthy write ups. As my iBlogger friends recently discovered, I adore those wide eyed cuddly stuffed toys, swoons over giant wheels and tend to get nervous whenever a clown is in sight. 

I am but a kid. And I may have wished for a romantic relationship, even frustrated myself over the idea, but I no longer lean on that kind of longing. I’ve walked the narrowest of the narrowest road and have seen one of the worst images there are, and at last I’ve learn to content myself in small things. 

When you’re happy with the small stuffs, happiness is easy. Happiness not only becomes yours but you yourself, you become happiness. 

I am my own happiness, so to people wishing me a boyfriend or a partner to gain happiness, thank you, but no more that I want one. 

I’ll tell you my idea of happiness. Whenever I could run and play barefoot on the seashore, whenever my friends and I would take a bath and sleep together, whenever I see stars hovering over dark clouds, whenever I get new books, whenever I eat hand to mouth, whenever I listen to strangers tell their stories – that, I am already happy. 

Bad decisions from the past does not make me any less of a person. Or being mistreated. Or being misunderstood. Or being misjudged, being mistaken and rejected. Or being single. I am as good as you are lovers; probably even happier than most of you are.

So long as there are free cakes to taste, so long as jokes would always come, so long as stealing one’s donut is not punishable by law and Timezone won’t be swallowed whole by the Earth, I think I will be fine. If not, I think this time, it’s best I teach my feet how to fly.

"There must be some way out of here," said the joker to the thief.
"There's too much confusion, I can't get no relief."
Businessmen they drink my wine, plowmen they dig my earth.
None of them along the line know what any of it is worth.

"No reason to get excited," the thief he kindly spoke
"There are many here among us who think life is but a joke."
"But you and I, we've been through that, and this is not our fate."
So let us not talk falsely, the hour is getting late."

-All along the watchtower by Bob Dylan

14 reaction(s):

Victor Saudad said...

Let's have cake. :)

Désolé Boy said...

Don't tease me your invitation monsieur. Or I'll say yes to that. ;D

Biboy Ordinario said...

Bake and Churn's Ice Cream cake will surely ease your nostalgia :) Be happy :)

ZaiZai said...

:) Merry Christmas Desole! :)

Nate said...

sorry na, lil bro.. :/ a hug then? --- "I am my own happiness, so to people wishing me a boyfriend or a partner to gain happiness, thank you, but no more that I want one."

kalansaycollector said...

hugs! :)

Guyrony said...

Most people with the exist with the notion that man cannot stand alone.

However, it is true, sometimes, a person need not someone to make him happy.

For doesn't happiness come from within.

Okay, I snickered while typing that last line.

Another year Desole Boy, another year.

Désolé Boy said...

Biboy - Thanks for the advice.I'm really looking for a good mouth watering cake lately. ;D
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Zai - A happy one to you too monsieur!
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Kuya Nate - Much appreciated. Treat ninyo naman ako ni C. No coffee though, bawal sa 'ken eh.
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Kalansay - Thanks ;D
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G - True, true. Oh well, another year indeed. The battle is still on.

Michael Offutt, Supra-Genius said...

I too love leather boots...a fascination with all footwear actually. I love the line "been undressed by kings". heheh.

Nate said...

@deebee: treat?! sureness!! DM me your digits, and let's see.. :)

Aris said...

maligayang pasko, db! :)

KikomaxXx said...

Robin happy Christmas :)

Yas Jayson said...

Para sa mga paghahanap, pananatili at paglipad.

Maligayang Pasko, DB.

Victor Saudad said...

So how about that cake?


I am not teasing. I'm craving...

for cake that is.
:D

 

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